With a group of classmates, practice rephrasing each of the following “you” statements in “I” and/or “we” language:

“You’re not telling me the truth!”

“You only think of yourself!”

“Don’t be so touchy!”

“You don’t understand a word I’m saying!”

Now think of three “you” statements you could make to people in your life. Transform each of these statements into

“I” and “we” language, and rehearse them with a classmate. In your rephrasings, try to use the language of choice (want to, going to, will) instead of obligation (have to, should, can’t).