Watch the TED Talk by attorney and negotiator Kwame Christian, titled "Finding Confidence in Conflict" by clicking on the following link :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F6Zg65eK9XULinks to an external site.

Answer the following questions:

1. Describe the three possible reactions to conflict, according to the speaker. Have you experienced these reactions? Explain.
2. Thinking about example of "cereal gate", think of a time when you have experienced a similar conflict? How did you respond? How would you respond differently next time?
3. What is meant by compassionate curiosity, according to the speaker? Use the term in describing a situation you have experienced.
4. What is wrong with being a people-pleaser? Do you find yourself to be a people-pleaser? How does conflict present us with an opportunity?