After presenting the problem, the initiator should $(1)$ not make accusations, $(2)$ not draw inferences about the responder's motivations, and $(3)$ attribute the undesirable behaviors to the respondent's personal inadequacies. Which statements are correct?

Only statements $2$ and $3$ are correct.

Only statements $1$ and $2$ are correct.

Only statements $1$ and $3$ are correct.

All three statements are correct.