people how they see you. Ask at least 10 people to name three words they think describe you. Ask them to give you descriptive words such as these:

• Dependable

• Fun

• Quick-thinking

• Decisive

Do not just choose friends. Ask teachers, co-workers, rela tives, and others who are willing to give you an honest opinion. Make a list of each person’s descriptions; then summarize your findings by identifying the five characteristics or traits that were mentioned most often. Do these descriptions match your self-perception? Why or why not?