How can I turn these negative statements into positive statement during a mediation session?

"I want things to change, but with all the problems we have now, it's impossible for it to get better."

"We can't talk because he is like all men; he avoids all of the problems and says he is busy when he doesn't want to talk about our problems."

"She would be a better mother if she made those little kids behave better and had them stop riding bicycles on my front sidewalk."