"its easier to follow a pattern or path to completion and not just "wing" it$.$ You used our personal life as an example, sometimes we are so busy trying to manage your home, work and family responsibilities. You ask yourself how can I make my life easier? Is there a short cut to accomplishing my goal, "satisfying," everyone's needs. Are major changes needed to simplify the path you have chosen or is there no end to the madness? I believe sometimes we lose our focus regarding what the goal is and how to accomplish that goal successfully.