To make reflective responses more effective, one should: $(1)$ restate what you heard in a way that helps ensure you understand the message ; $(2)$ responding to individuals is always more important than responding to circumstances or facts ; and $(3)$ respond to expressed feelings before responding to content.

All three statements are true.

Only statements $1$ and $3$ are true.

Only statements $1$ and $2$ are true.

Only statements $2$ and $3$ are true.