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What is resilience, and how can each of us cultivate it in our own lives? The ADP Research Institute conducted two field studies. The first identified the sources of resilience, pinpointing the best questions to measure it, and providing specific prescriptions to increase resilience in yourself and those you lead. The second, a global study of resilience around the world, measured aspects of resilience among 25,000 working adults from 25 different countries. Two key findings: 1) Resilience is a reactive state of mind created by exposure to suffering, and 2) The more tangible leaders make the threat, the more resilient people become. The implication for leaders: Dont sugar-coat harsh reality. Tell people the truth about threats and they will respond with resilience.close

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Eleven years ago my friend Sally was diagnosed with ALS, also known as Lou Gehrigs disease, the degenerative motor-neuron disease which gradually renders you unable to move, to eat, to talk, and in the end to breathe. She had just turned 40, two kids, happily married to a prince of a guy, so much to look forward to, for all of them. And then this horrible suffering. This very slow car crash was her husbands description and I cant get that image out of my head. The wreckage, the brokenness, the inevitability of pain, and nothing anyone can do about it but look on helplessly. I think Im disappearing, Sally told me back then. What am I going to do when no one sees me anymore?

Today, against all the odds, she is still alive. Yes, she cant move, or talk, or eat, or breathe on her own, but she has not disappeared. Instead, with the aid of her eye-powered talking machine, she is as feisty and loving and wise as she ever was. Sally can convey more meaning in one glance than most of us can in a 20-minute rant. How do you do it? I asked her. How do you stay so strong for your hubby, for your kids?

There are so many things I cant do, Marcus, she replied. But why bother looking at those? Instead I spend all my time focused on those few things I can do. I can still love my husband. I can still love my kids. Im still here.

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She is so very present. And these days folks like Sally have so much to teach all of us about resilience. For more than a decade she has been sheltering in place, socially distancing herself from those who might infect her, unable to get out and move around, and yet she has retained her verve and her spirit. Would that we all could tap into such reserves of strength and forbearance. Would that we could all sway in the face of lifes awful challenges and bounce back stronger than we ever were. What is it that Sally had access to? Was it simply a part of her genetic makeup that allowed her not to cave, or was it something she did consciously? What is this thing called resilience, and how can each of us cultivate it in our own lives?

To begin to answer these questions, my team at the ADP Research Institute undertook two field studies. The first focused on identifying the sources of resilience, pinpointing the best questions to measure it, and then playing out the specific prescriptions to increase resilience in yourself and those you lead and care about. You can find the full set of results here.

The second was a global study of resilience around the world. We asked 25,000 working adults in 25 countries 10 key questions about resilience. In each country we first constructed a sample stratified to reflect the demographic make-up of that countrys workforce, and then in July 2020 we posed these 10 questions to determine the percentage of workers in each country who were highly resilient.

My thesis going in was that those countries which had responded most effectively to the Covid-19 epidemic as measured by number of deaths and cases per million would display the most resilient workforce. I expected countries such as Taiwan, Singapore, and South Korea would show very high levels of resilience, whereas countries such as Brazil, India, and the U.S. would have comparatively lower levels of resilience. The U.S., for example, has only 4% of the worlds population, yet more than 20% of the worlds Covid cases. Surely this outsized number of cases would have had a negative effect on resilience levels.

I was wrong. My thesis didnt hold up. Instead a very different pattern emerged, one that revealed not only how you can build resilience in your own life, but also why so many of our senior leaders are pursuing the wrong path in their attempts to increase resilience in those they lead.

Our Findings

To begin with, lets dispense with some factors which you might be wondering about.

Resilience levels are not connected to gender men and women around the world have almost exactly the same levels of resilience. Nor does age seem to be a significant factor.

Neither were there strong correlations between resilience and ethnicity or nationality.

Instead, we found that there were two primary drivers of resilience which, taken together, lead to an interesting and counterintuitive prescription:

1. Resilience is a reactive state of mind created by exposure to suffering. In our study we asked people if they had had Covid themselves, if someone in their family had Covid, if someone on their work team had it, and if someone in their wider circle had it. Those people who responded in the affirmative to each of these questions were 3.9 times more likely to be highly resilient.

It didnt matter how effective or ineffective your country had been in responding to the pandemic. What drove your level of resilience was a function of how intimately exposed you, yourself, had been: The more exposed you were, the higher your resilience levels.

This strongly suggests that we discover our resilience only when we are forced to meet unavoidable suffering full in the face. Its when we face that reality, and see ourselves and how we respond to it, that we find the basis for resilience. The real is almost always less scary than the imagined, and the reality of the disease helps you with knowing what youre capable of, which is strengthening.

2. The more tangible the threat, the more resilient we become.

In our survey we asked people if they had experienced any changes in their working conditions as a result of Covid sheltered in place, change in work hours, layoffs or furloughs, increased use of technology, etc. We gave people a list of 11 possible changes.

Ninety-six percent of people around the world reported that theyd experienced at least one of these changes. No surprise there. But what was surprising was that some people had experienced more than five of these changes. Those that did were not only more convinced that these changes would be permanent, but they were also 13 times more likely to be highly resilient. In other words, if you had been forced to absorb significant changes in your work you had increased levels of resilience. In fact, the more changes you had to absorb, the more resilient you were.

Combine findings one and two, and you realize that we humans do not function well when our senior leaders gloss over the reality. We dont need them to sugarcoat in order to make us feel better. It wont. It is far more frightening, and damaging to the psyche, to downplay tough or dark realities, or to pretend they dont exist, because then we allow our imaginations to run riot, and who knows what kind of demons we can conjure in our minds eye.

Instead of downplaying the reality, tell it to us straight. Dont rush us back to normal in an effort to assuage our fear and anxiety. Instead, describe in detail what the threat actually is. Show us up close and personal what real-world changes we will have to make in our lives, and tell us the truth about how these changes are designed to protect us. Show us in practice what our new normal is and why, and then trust us to figure out how to live happily and healthily inside this new normal.

Many of our leaders are not giving us enough credit. Psychologist Viktor Frankl told us back in the 1930s: Our response to unavoidable suffering is one of the primary sources in our lives of meaning and purpose and self-efficacy. Suffering and difficulty must never be hidden from us. Instead, show them to us honestly and clearly and we will reveal to ourselves and to you our greatest strength.

Sallys greatest fears preceded the worst symptoms of ALS. It was the waiting, and waiting, that terrified her. Once the symptoms came, it was still awful and so difficult, but then at least she could take their measure, understand what they were truly going to feel like for her, and she could begin to figure out the practical, real-world business of how to live with strength and grace and resilience.

Our research suggests that the same applies to you and me. Its the unknown that scares us. Show us the truth about our threats, and we will reveal the true reserves of our power.

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