1. Write your eulogy as you believe it might actually be said by the person who will miss you the most when you die. What would this person say about you and what your life has meant to them? Be sure to describe who is saying this and their relationship to you. 2. Write your epitaph as you like it to be seen on your tombstone including your date of birth and a specific date of death. If you plan to be cremated, write an inscription on a plaque that will be mounted on the base of the container that will hold your remains. 3. Why did you select that date of death above? What does this say about your attitudes toward death? 4. How do you want to be remembered by others after you die? Be specific! 5. As you examine and evaluate your life right now, what changes do you need to make in order to be remembered as the person you described in # 4 above? How do you intend to make these changes? 6. What emotions, feelings, or thoughts regarding death or life did you experience while doing this exercise? Why?