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Question 9 (1 point) Listen Which aspect of responding nondefensively does the following example represent? Person A I can't believe you said we'd pick up Sam on the way to the concert Person B. Are you saying that I should call him and tell him he has to get there himself? Person A. No, I just wish you'd asked me first. asking about specifics paraphrasing the speaker's ideas asking about the consequences of your behaviour asking what the critic wants Question 10 (1 point) Listen What do you need to do when you decide to agree with your critic? Agree with the critic's perceptions but not the facts O Agree with the facts Agree with the facts and the critic's perceptions. Be prepared to offer an apology