Reflection Instructions: Answer each question in paragraph form. Support your responses with relevant information from the assigned chapter and your lived experiences. Information should be cited in-text and should include the author and page number. 1. Is there an event in your life or in your past that you find difficult to forgive? Describe the event and what makes it so difficult to forgive. 2. Return to the incident you described above. What would it take for you to forgive the other person? What are the consequences of forgiving the other person? Of not forgiving the other person? 3. Anne Lamott wrote that "not forgiving is like drinking rat poison and waiting for the rat to die." Are there times when we should not forgive? How does this affect us? 4. Write out a description of a conflict involving a relational transgression that moved through the reconciliation process. Describe what happened at each step of the process. Was it worth it for you? Why or why not?