Adam and Ella worked as speech pathologists at the same school district Both started three years ago, and both were excited and optimistic when they started. But now, the rosy glow they started with had become dim. "Ugh," said Ella, $"$if one more kid spits or sneezes or spills their juice on me$,$ I am going to scream. Why did I think it would be fun working with children? I feel like l$\text{'}$m just a glorified babysitter. Why can't they learn anything? should have gone to law school or something instead I need a new job" "she complained.

The more she complained the more Adam could feel his good mood sinking "You might be right, I guess this isn't really what I expected, either. Do you think I should look for a different job?" he asked. Her response was instant. "Yesl" she said, @We both can do so much better than this." Today, Adam was in a good mood until Ella started complaining about the job. They decided they both needed to look for a new job.

By the time he got home, Adam was feeling irritable and dejected. When his wife asked him what was wrong, he told her, "I was in a great mood today until Ella made me feel really negative"

Questions

What is the basic problem leading to Adam and Ella's attitudes?

Who is responsible for the attitudes each person is displaying? At this stage, how can each of them build a more positive attitude?

Are values and attitudes involved here? Explain.

What are some possible long$-$term outcomes if they do not change their attitudes?